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We’ve got more modes of flirty communication now than ever. And yet there’s still that tragic Sunday morning moment when you realize you drunkenly texted “you up?” to three exes and a coworker.

But, don’t worry, Jimmy Fallon and Aziz Ansari are here to say that you’re not alone. On Monday’s Tonight Show to promote his new book, Modern Romance: An Investigation, Aziz had plenty to share about modern love. He also served as the perfect candidate to read some less-than-stellar first text message interactions in a segment called “First Textual Experience.”

Cue the awkwardness and prepare to feel a lot better about yourself.

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Sometimes, things are over-explained.

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Or not proofread.

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Other times, there’s the eternal Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde-Your-Face struggle between late-night you…

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…and morning-after you.

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Remember: if you have to ask if you’re creeping someone out, you’re creeping someone out.

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AutoCorrect is the cause of death for many a promising text exchange.

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Texting is hard. Watch the full clip here.