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The Bachelorette Strayed; Should She Tell the Fiance?
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One of my close college friends is about to get married to a mutual friend of ours–they’ve been dating since our junior year. Recently, we threw her a bachelorette party in New Orleans. She had her own room at the hotel, but the first night we went out I got ready with her, so things would move faster. After a wild night of drinks and dancing, we all stumbled home, and I realized ten or fifteen minutes later that I’d left some of my toiletries in her room.

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Take My Advice: Will Making a Move on My ‘Work Husband’ Turn Me Into a Homewrecker?
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Take My Advice: Drink and Kiss and Tell – Please, Tell
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I made a mistake. Recently I went home for a friend’s wedding, and after getting tipsy at the reception, I hooked up with an ex from high school. Then I flew back home…to my live-in boyfriend. I’ve never cheated in the past, and I feel horrible about it. Obviously I’m not going to start up a long-distance thing with my ex, but I find myself fantasizing about him all the time now. Should I tell my boyfriend what happened? It’s eating me up. More

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Take My Advice: I Know Too Much (Carnally)
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My friend is really excited about a new boyfriend, and last night we went out to drinks so I could meet him. Turns out I already know him…because we used to sleep together occasionally a couple years ago. It was always a drunken booty-call kind of a thing, and it ended after he told me that he needed to “work on things with his girlfriend.” Apparently, he’d had one the whole time. I don’t really want to mention my sexual history with my friend’s new guy, because I think it would make things awkward, especially when she’s so into him. But I feel like she should know he’s a cheater. Do I say something, or just bite my tongue? More