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Take My Advice: Friends For Never?
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My girlfriend and I broke up about six months ago, and haven’t really seen each other since. Recently, I’ve started hanging out more with someone we met as a couple…and my ex freaked. She sent me Facebook messages to “stay away from her friends,” and asked this mutual friend to cut me off (I know because the friend told me). I don’t see what the big deal is—even if my ex knew this person first, am I really supposed to avoid anyone she’s “claimed?” Is it fair for her to expect our mutual friends to drop me? I live in JP, so do most of these friends, and it’s already become clear that I’m GOING to see a lot of them around. Besides, my social circle isn’t so large that I want to halve it every time a relationship ends… More